Ok, I've taken over (only for one post though as this blogging thing is not
for me). Annie always posts about everyone else, but no one ever posts about
Annie. It's our anniversary (ok it was on August 28th so I'm a little late).
Annie: Happy 8th anniversary! Our first date at Maggie Bluffs was 12 years
ago. It only took a couple months before I knew it was you (or maybe a couple
days). Your intelligence, your respect for others, your energy, your
competitive nature, your laugh, your smile (and your dimples), and your love
for family were evident from the beginning. And the obvious...the hottest damn
women I've ever laid eyes on...then and now! You become more beautiful every
day. I can't help but wonder sometimes what I did to deserve you. It's amazing
how much we've experienced in 8 years of marriage...good and bad. Our
relationship has grown to be something of a rock. Of course the rock can shift
every now and then, but I love more than anything that we run to each other if
our rock shifts at all. So many people turn away, but we turn to each
other.
As the years go by we desire to
spend more time with each other. We create reasons to do so, and I love that
about us.
I love how people are drawn to
you.
I love how people respect you.
I love your integrity and honesty.
I love your desire to always work on our
relationship.
I love your methods….
You’re methods:
I love how driven you
are to succeed in everything you do.
Those
who know you well know that there is no middle ground with something you’re
working on (be it photography, accounting, family, etc.).
If you’re going to do something, you’re going
to do it 110%, and be very successful at it.
I rag on you about it sometimes because you tend to wear yourself out…but
I LOVE that about you.
Nothing in our
household that you work on is half way done!
I love your stubbornness and feistiness….
Your stubbornness and feistiness:
You
know that these are the things that sometimes would bug me early on in our
relationship.
As time went on I began to
enjoy these traits…a little!
But, since
Katie’s personality has come out, I have fallen in love with them.
Katie is so FEISTI and so STUBBORN…and I love
it!
I love your focus on love languages….
Your love language: Words of Affirmation.
I’m horrible at this, but I try.
I love how you tell me exactly what you need.
No beating around the bush.
This keeps our relationship strong and
current…I don’t feel like we’ve ever had to catch up for lost time.
If we’ve disconnected at all due to life, we
can reconnect in an instant.
I love to
watch you as a mother….
Our Children:
This one gets me.
As you know, I’ve never been a very emotional
or deep person.
But kids can change that
quickly.
They have made us so much more
attached to each other.
Probably the
thing that has challenged us the most, and tested our relationship and faith,
is the emotional struggles we endured to have children.
Through the struggles, we now have 2 healthy,
amazing children (and another on the way).
I know we don’t believe in comparing, but in hind sight we are so
fortunate.
Some people endure so much
more.
Andy and Katie (and Baby G3) are
our lives.
Everything we do is for
them.
Every decision we make affects
their lives, and their future.
As every
parent does, we have such big plans for our children.
We want to provide an environment where they
thrive and are given opportunities to grow as individuals and live successful,
healthy, and happy lives.
We both
believe that if our children see and understand our relationship as husband and
wife (our love and respect for each other…as well as our differences), they
will not only understand the value of a healthy marriage, but will be more
confident people in life.
You are a
wonderful mother.
I love how our
children adore you…how tightly they hang onto you when they need Mommy…how when
you come home they run to you…how you have very specific traditions with each
of them.
Andy is our little
individualist.
His creative and curious
mind that is so eager to learn fascinates us every day.
Andy Man is such a sweet little guy, but
rough around the edges…and I love it.
He
loves to do projects with Daddy.
He’s
our buddy.
Anderson and I have an
unbreakable father/son bond….but the Mommy bond is just as strong.
Katie Baby is our half girlie girl/half tom
boy.
She loves to hang with the girls,
but loves to play in the mud with the boys….feisti and stubborn, but sweet as
can be at the same time.
I love how she
wants to do everything Andy does.
We
love our little girl.
And I love that
special relationship I have with her…she’s got me wrapped around her finger.
I love how she tries so hard to wrap Mommy
around her finger, but it just doesn’t fly.
Your Mommy/daughter relationship with Katie is beautiful.
Eight years and counting.
You are my
soulmate, my everything.
We will
celebrate our 50 year, and hopefully 60 year anniversaries if our health
prevails.
I love you more each day and
can’t wait for the wonderful years ahead with each other, and our growing family.